LOL! As you know I believe that women's physical sexual response is actually about the same as men's and tried in my limited way to prove it as you are aware from my post showing the results of my survey. However, I do believe that women's sexual response is more complex than men's in the sense that women crave a multiplicity of sensations to have truly great sex and that it's the combination of physical, emotional and psychological sensations that they desire to experience and when all these factors come together the sex is much better for them. In that regard it is more difficult for women to be fully satisfied sexually although they might come as easily as a man does. Men, I think are simpler. We're just made very happy to get any sex at all at times and don't have such a need for such a holistic experience. It's nice when it happens but it's not necessarily at the core of our yearning. Does that make sense? I would equate this with what you say about 'orgasmic experience'. Since those feelings were triggered by movie scenes then there is more at play than just wanting sex and a climax. As I said it's about desiring a combination of sensations.
As to the MMF business, I was using the opportunity to tease you. I got the distinct impression that you were happy with your husband but somehow, I can't ever pass up an opportunity to put licentious suggestions into a lady's head!