My wife gave me so much shit about a woman that I did not have an affair with that I thought that it couldn't be worse if I did an affair, so why turn down the pleasure. So. the next time I didn't. And I was right. She badgered me about it for ages and when I finally broke down and admitted it, I never heard another word about it. Everyone is different. One of the amin reasons that both men and women have affairs is for the dopamine hit that we get from having a new sexual partner. This is mainly about coping with boredom. These days, life lasts a long time and is not nasty brutish and short as it was through so much of human history! So, we have more sex with less consequences than at any other time in human history.

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