The last time I had all three of my girlfriends in bed together one of them had three orgasms, one had six and the other had anywhere from twelve to twenty. I had one and that is the real 'orgasm gap'. Women who are in touch with their sexuality will always have a better time and greater pleasure rewards as result. Your message is correct, get your head in the right place and your body will follow and get a partner who understands how to help facilitate it.